New Baby Intro

Baby #2 is due in early May 2010. I have had a rough start to this pregnancy compared to my first. As for symptoms, I don't want any kind of food at all. I just don't want it. I force myself to eat. I am also getting joint pain in my hips which my Dr. said was normal even though I didn't get them until much later in my last pregnancy. She said that those kinds of symptoms always show up earlier in subsequent pregnancies so FUN. I am also getting a bit of heartburn and I am so tired. Thankfully the "morning" sickness and nausea are almost gone completely.

I had my 12 week visit yesterday. No weight gain (yay!). We were suppose to hear the heartbeat but because I am a big girl, the nurse couldn't get it so we got another u/s (Hooray!!)

Dr. couldn't get a good read on the heartbeat, guess about 162, because the little thing was moving way too much. Dr said I am not concerned at all because of all the movement. It was really neat to see the baby move so much. Our son never moved that much.

So thinks are moving along, I go to the dr. again on Nov 23rd and then again the first week of Dec for my first Glucose test. I am going to get two because my last OB wrote in my records that I was "Glucose intolerant", although she never mentioned that to me. So we will do one at like 18 weeks and then the standard one at 28 weeks.

My husband and I are divided on whether or not to find out the sex. We found out with my son, but I am thinking I want a surprise. Of course, my husband wants to know. So I told him we aren't HA. I am rethinking it though because I am wondering if knowing the sex will make it easier for my son.

Do you think it makes a difference is the older child knows its a Brother or Sister?